Lenten Mid-week homily

 

 THE COMPASSIONATE WORD (JOHN 19:26–27)

-From Bach’s St. John Passion we hear these words:

“He of everything took heed.

In his hour of dying 

Caring for His mother’s need,

On His friend relying.

O man, do all things aright

Love God and thy neighbor,

Die then without pain and fright.

Rest from care and labor.”

The Savior’s word from the cross is a word of compassion. “Woman, behold, your son! [Son] behold, your mother!” The disciples had fled in fear. Only the women remained, along with the disciple whom Jesus loved. Jesus’ mother, Mary, her sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene together with John. These remained near the cross, keeping vigil. 

Some of you have been there, keeping watch over a loved one as they take a walk, from one end of Christ’s kingdom to the other: from the kingdom of grace into the kingdom of glory. It’s a sacred time, painful though it is. Words need not be spoken in such a reverent space. Still, it’s painful.

1. This Word: The Compassionate Word

A. His Mother Watches

Yet this scene is haunting. No mother expects to see her child die. That is quite out of order. Children are supposed to bury their mothers, not mothers their children. Simeon had told Mary that a sword would pierce her own soul too. Did she realize at the time what those prophetic words meant? How it must have grieved the blessed mother of our Lord to see her Son dying on the cross! What mother could bear such a sight?

Could she have imagined such things that glorious night in Bethlehem when shepherds came to visit and told of angels and heavenly “Glorias” as she had pondered everything they said in her heart? Could she have known the destiny of her Son as He changed water into wine at the wedding at Cana? Could she have understood why this was necessary to save the world, to save her? 

B. His Best Friend Watches

John, His best friend, is there too. Who can bear to watch his best friend die such a horrible death? John, who had leaned on Jesus the night before at table, now stares up at the scene against the blackened sky. It was all so confusing. It was not the way it was supposed to go. They had ridden into Jerusalem to shouts of “Hosanna!” and the waving of palms. Jesus had entered the city like the King that He was. It was His moment; the crowds were with Him. And now it all comes down to this. Here Jesus is broken, beaten, bleeding, dying. John’s heart, too, must have been broken as this Son of Thunder stands there utterly helpless to help his best friend.

C. Jesus Has Compassion

From the cross, Jesus looks with compassion on His friend whom He loved and upon His mother, the gentle woman who had bore Him, nursed and nurtured Him, raised Him from boyhood in Nazareth. Some believe that Joseph had long since died. Jesus had cared for His mother as her firstborn son.

Now, in a singular intimate moment, He entrusts His beloved mother to His beloved disciple, to John. “Woman,” He says, addressing her with honor and respect, as He always did. He never calls her “Mother” in Scripture, though she was His mother. Instead, He calls her “Woman,” emphasizing that she has no special status as His mother, yet she is accorded full respect and honor. “Woman, behold, your son. Behold, your mother.” 

As Jesus is the surrogate Sinner, so now John is the surrogate son. Such compassion Jesus has that even in His dying breath, He cares for the needs of His mother. From that time on, John took her into his home.

II. Community in Christ

A. The Family of Christ

Behold, thy mother. He places us into family, into community. He gives us to one another that we may be sons and daughters, mothers, and fathers, for one another. 

One time, when Mary and Jesus’ family wanted to take Him into protective custody, fearing that He had lost His mind, His disciples told Him, “Your mother and brothers are here for you.” Jesus looked

at the people gathered in a circle around Him and said, “Whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” (Matthew 12:50)

B. The Body of Christ

Death is a thief robbing us of the company of those we love, separating mothers from sons, fathers from daughters, and husbands from wives. This is the isolating result of our sin that we are separated from those we love by death. Sometimes sin has a wedging way, driving deep divisions into families, setting members against one another, estranging us from one another. Divorce is only the tip of the iceberg that cuts through the bonds of blood.

But Jesus calls us into community, into His family, the Church. We are children of God, born in Baptism, born of our holy virgin mother, the Church. Woman, behold, thy son, thy daughter. Child of God, behold, thy mother.

III. No Longer Separated

A. Unity in the Body of Christ

“The separation in His death is the death of our separation.” The barrier of sin is torn down; the judgment of the Law lifted; the gates of our solitary confinement opened wide. The death of Jesus brings us together into Holy Communion and a holy community. Emanuel - God who is with us. 

Gathered in His Name, around His Word, Baptism, body and blood, we are bound together in His death and life.

They say blood runs thicker than water. Family ties are strong. But baptismal water runs even thicker than blood, for it binds us together as one in the Body of Christ, a communion that goes on forever. The bonds of blood end with death. Husband and wife are united as “one flesh” until death parts them. But our unity in the body of Christ goes beyond death and the grave and on to resurrection and eternal life. Look around you and behold your brother, your sister, your family. He gives us to one another for safe keeping - until He brings us home.

B. The Love of God

Years later, John reflected on this in his First Epistle. He writes: Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent His only Son into the world, so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and His love is perfected in us. (4:7–12)

Thus, we pray:

May we all Your loved ones be,

All one holy family,

Loving, since Your love we see:

Hear us, holy Jesus. Amen. 

(Lutheran Service Book 447:9)

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